Career Change: One Unexpected Piece of Advice

by alisonelissa on February 7, 2012

One of the most annoying questions that career coaches, including myself, often ask is: “What can you do to make your current job/ situation better?”

“Aagghh!” clients respond, “I want to get out of this place. Why put any energy into the thing that I’m already fed up with?”

There are two big reasons.

1) We are repelled by needy and desperate vibes, which is how you may come off if you really want to leave your current situation. Instead, when you’re good where you are you will naturally give off a calmer, cooler vibe, thereby becoming a more attractive candidate for a job.

2) There is one common factor at any job that you take. You. More specifically your attitude, thoughts, and behaviors. Any progress you make on improving your thoughts or daily habits moves with you and benefits you in your next job.

Here are three areas to look at to improve your current situation.

1) The Day To Day Itself

I recognize that there are many jobs where the expectations of superiors mean that there is not much wiggle room in terms of how you spend your days. However, it is worth a minute to stop and ask yourself a couple questions:

Is anyone in my organization doing work that I think I would enjoy? How could I move closer to those tasks?

Is there any project I could proactively undertake that both supports my employer and my own interests?

What is the most irritating part of my job? How could I handle it better?

If you are in between jobs consider:

Is there any freelance or volunteer work I could do that I would find engaging between full-time jobs?

What activities/ groups could I add to my day to support my well being?

2) Circumstances Outside of the Work Day

The big four components of well being outside of the workday are connection, sleep, exercise, and healthy eating. Spending some time focusing on and integrating healthy habits into your life will pay off both short term and long term. Where could you improve? Where could you add more fun into your life?

3) Your Thoughts During the Day

Watch out for thoughts like

“I’m never going to get out of this.” or

“I’ll never find a better job.”

They feel crappy, and in all likelihood they aren’t true. Telling a painful mental story about your situation adds another layer of ick to a circumstance that you already don’t like.

Remember instead that this is a temporary situation. Focus on the benefits of your life right now, like freedom, salary, or being in good health. Try quieting your mental chatter by looking at or listening to something beautiful or by doing a mini-meditation.

In this moment there are already so many gifts. Here’s a lovely resource for tuning into what is available in the present.

Louie Schwartzberg shows his slow motion nature photography. Ends with a monk sharing a meditation on gratitude as a back drop to the images.

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The Job Hunt

by alisonelissa on February 6, 2012

Are you on a job hunt or looking to change careers?

I spend a lot of my time helping people figure out what they want in terms of career direction, which is a big first step that plenty of people get stuck on. But once you’re clear on your career direction how do you go about getting a relevant job.

(Just to be clear here, I’m talking about landing a job that you are actually energized by and have some intrinsic motivation for beyond just a paycheck. Though the paycheck is important too.)

The main thing to recognize about a job search is that it is a marketing campaign. And any marketing campaign deals with four main elements. I’ve included a few tips on how to improve your job search in each of these categories.

A Product

In a job search we are the product. We have certain experiences, knowledge, skills, and character.

Ways to improve- Gaining more education or experience can bolster your appeal. Seeking a volunteer or part-time work experience may give you a foot in the door to a new industry. One cautionary note on improving yourself- it’s easy to get stuck spending too much time here. It generally wouldn’t hurt to improve, but this can become a ‘safe’, comfortable place to stay to avoid putting ourselves out into the marketplace.

A Story

This is a compelling description of what is being sold. Our story consists of our cover letter, resume, appearance, communication, references, and interviewing ability. All of these items create a picture of who we are, ideally taken with the best possible lighting.

Ways to improve- After you’ve crafted your story as best you can send it for a test run with a few targeted applications instead of sending 100 applications all at once. By sending a few applications at a time you give yourself the opportunity to gauge the reaction, and then tweak your story for the next round of applications based on the results you get. If you’re not getting any responses to the story you are putting out be sure to get a second pair of eyes to look over what you’ve put together.

Market Knowledge

Our target market is people who work in our desired industry who are looking to hire. Market knowledge involves knowing who is in your market, what problems they are looking to solve by filling a position, and what they are looking for in a candidate.

Ways to improve- You’re interested in this field, right? Learn more information about current trends and challenges the industry is facing. Talk to people in the field. Ask them what’s going on, how they got to their position, and what steps they would recommend you take. Don’t get discouraged if in the process of talking to people you hear someone who is having a bad experience in your field. It’s just one person’s opinion.

Marketing Channels

These are ways for buyers (employers) to hear about what is being sold. In a job search responding to a job post, participating in an alumni group or industry association, seeking out informational interviews, connecting with your network, and writing or presenting on an industry related topic are all examples of marketing channels.

Ways to improve- Use every possible (legal) means to create every possible opportunity for yourself. Don’t stay limited to online applications.

Conducting a successful job search can be a lot of work. Which of these categories have you been putting most of your time toward? Which could you put a little more time into?

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